The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
Finally in paperback, the New York Times,bestseller that has fundamentally changed the way,children of divorce see themselves as adults has,returned with an updated preface by the author. In,this compelling book, Wallerstein sensitively,illustrates the longterm effects that children of,divorce experience when...
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Finally in paperback, the New York Times,bestseller that has fundamentally changed the way,children of divorce see themselves as adults has,returned with an updated preface by the author. In,this compelling book, Wallerstein sensitively,illustrates the longterm effects that children of,divorce experience when embarking on romantic,relationships of their own. Combining research and,analysis with advice to real people, she checks in,on adults she first encountered as children 25,years ago and evaluates their experiences.,'Any child of divorce..can identify' - Newsweek.
If you grew up as a child of divorce, you may find yourself asking: Why am I so afraid of conflict? Why do I have such a fear of commitment? Why am I always waiting for the "other shoe to drop," even at moments of success? You may be surprised to discover how common these feelings are for children of divorce, especially as they get older. Dr. Judith Wallerstein has been studying the effects of divorce on children for 25 years, but even she wasn't expecting the findings presented here: that while children learn to cope with divorce, its greatest effects don't emerge until adulthood. Book jacket.
Finally in paperback, the New York Times bestseller that has fundamentally changed the way children of divorce see themselves as adults -- updated with a new preface by the author.
Divorce is at once a widespread reality and a painful decision, so it is no surprise that this landmark study of its long-term effects should both spark debate and find a large audience.
In this compelling, thought-provoking book, Judith Wallerstein explains that, while children do learn to cope with divorce, it in fact takes its greatest toll in adulthood, when the sons and daughters of divorced parents embark on romantic relationships of their own. Wallerstein sensitively illustrates how children of divorce often feel that their relationships are doomed, seek to avoid conflict, and fear commitment. Failure in their loving relationships often seems to them preordained, even when things are going smoothly. As Wallerstein checks in on the adults she first encountered as youngsters more than twenty-five years ago, she finds that their experiences mesh with those of the millions of other children of divorce, who will find themselves on every page.
With more than 100,000 copies in print, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce spent three weeks on the New York Times, San Francisco Chronicle, and Denver Post bestseller lists. The book was also featured on two episodes of Oprah as well as on the front cover of Time and the New York Times Book Review.
Lewis is a Professor of Psychology at San Francisco State University where she is Director of the Psychology Clinic and Coordinator of the Clinical Psychology graduate program. She is co-principal investigator of the 25 year Children of Divorce Project.
Judith S. Wallerstein is the author, with the award-winning science writer Sandra Blakeslee, of the national bestsellers The Good Marriage; The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce; and, most recently, What About the Kids? One of the nation's leading experts on divorce, Wallerstein has appeared on Oprah,The Today Show, and Good Morning America.
Wallerstein is executive director of the Center for the Family in Transition, Corte Madera, California, and is a senior lecturer at the School of Social Welfare, University of California at Berkeley.